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Half lit rooms's avatar

Felt like u just peeped into my heart and wrote this. It made me feel seen and a little less lonely

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Theafilo's avatar

Thank you for writing and sharing this.

When it comes to friendship, I think we belong to the same tribe. 💕

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Mawuli Kweku's avatar

Hmm

A passage that encapsulates everything I feel

Dear author, I love you

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Unpacking this in therapy…'s avatar

I felt this terribly. I feel like making friends as a grown up as a full blown adult is almost networking or even institutionalized. Yk what I mean? But again trust divine timing. Your people are coming to you. Maybe rn you’re meant to spend some solitude with yourself. Then these special friends can join that exclusive space. It’s expensive. You’re expensive. Not everyone deserves to see and get this side of you. Remember that. <3

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Noah Morgan's avatar

I’m feeling more and more this way. My friendships are everything to me. I wrote about something similar

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Lily's avatar

that resonated so deeply with how i perceive friendship, it was written in the best possible way. loved it!! thank you for this <33

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Sanvaad's avatar

Funny how some of us are programmed this way. One of the reasons i stopped making friends. It was lonely at first, but now I enjoy my company. I'm the friend I show up for now.

Loved this piece, hope y'all find a friend you deserve

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Karma lhendup bhutia's avatar

💙💙💙

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emma's avatar

fuck me, I feel like you peered into my journal and wrote it nearly word for word. I feel so incredibly seen with this post and all of its sentiments wrapped in a neat bow bound in love and endlessly complex emotions. I have a piece coming up next month about friendship I'm in the process of writing and will DEFINITELY be referencing / embedding this post, because wow. <3 beautiful work yet again

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Muntaha's avatar

Why everything that brings home to us must hurt us at first place? Why is there so much hate for the ones we love?

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cancerous's avatar

i have never related to anything more.

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Karma lhendup bhutia's avatar

The comment you wrote I was about to 😜 maybe we're all the same from the core 💌💙

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